1. False message: Bad behavior has no longterm consequences

　　In My Best Friend’s Girl, Dane Cook and Kate Hudson split after he intentionally pukes at a wedding and propositions her mom. But they’re soon back together,。

　　1. 錯(cuò)誤訊息：不良行為不會(huì)造成長(zhǎng)期后果

　　在《莫欺朋友妻》中，戴恩·庫克蓄意在一個(gè)婚禮上嘔吐并猥褻凱特·赫德森的媽媽后,，他們倆分手了,，但他們又很快復(fù)合。

　　In real life: Here’s when to build forgiveness: long before you screw up. Compliment her often. Show her you’re trust worthy. She’ll be quicker to forgive you if she has high self-esteem and trusts that you mean well,。

　　現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中：什么時(shí)候請(qǐng)求原諒：在你將事情搞得一團(tuán)糟以前,。經(jīng)常贊美她。向她顯示你是一個(gè)值得信賴的人,。如果她的自尊心很強(qiáng),，并相信你對(duì)她是善意的，那么她會(huì)更快地原諒你,。

　　2. False message: Gratuitous public displays of affection are proof of a strong relationship,。

　　In Must Love Dogs, John Cusack and Diane Lane suddenly kiss in the middle of a chat with a supermarket employee. Passionately. It’s love!

　　2. 錯(cuò)誤訊息：無故當(dāng)眾示愛是關(guān)系密切的證明

　　在《征婚廣告》中，在和一位超級(jí)市場(chǎng)雇員交談的時(shí)候，約翰·丘薩克和黛安娜·萊恩突然親吻起來,，熱烈地親吻,。這就是愛！

　　In real life: According to a poll we took of 500 women, over half said that if you were to shy away from them in public, they’d take it personally. Just hold her hand and give quick, public kisses. That’s all 98 percent of women said they want,。

　　現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中：根據(jù)我們對(duì)500 位女性所做的民意測(cè)驗(yàn),，超過半數(shù)的女性認(rèn)為如果你在公共場(chǎng)合與她們保持距離，她們會(huì)介意,。只要握著她的手,，在公共場(chǎng)合快速吻她就可以了。98%的女性都希望男性這樣做,。

　　3. False message: Arguing is destructive and almost always leads to a breakup

　　In Knocked Up, Seth Rogen and Katherine Heigl argue in a car. She kicks him out. They argue again a few minutes later, and then break up,。

　　3. 錯(cuò)誤訊息：爭(zhēng)吵對(duì)感情具有破壞性，往往會(huì)導(dǎo)致分手,。

　　在《一夜大肚》中,，塞思·羅根和凱瑟琳·海格爾在車內(nèi)爭(zhēng)吵。凱瑟琳將塞思踢出車外,。幾分鐘后他們又吵了起來,，然后分手了。

　　In real life: Expressing negative emotions can heighten intimacy. But if you’re mad at her, hit the Xbox first. An Iowa State University study found that people who distract themselves before an argument end up less angry,。

　　現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中：將消極情緒發(fā)泄出來可以增進(jìn)親密關(guān)系,，但如果你非常生她的氣，就先去玩會(huì)兒游戲,。愛荷華州立大學(xué)一項(xiàng)研究發(fā)現(xiàn)在爭(zhēng)吵前轉(zhuǎn)移一下自己的注意力,，吵的時(shí)候就沒那么生氣了。

　　4. False message: Early love is true, lasting love

　　In The Holiday, Jude Law professes his love for Cameron Diaz 2 weeks after they meet. She almost leaves him, but abandons her future plans for herself in order to stay with him,。

　　4. 錯(cuò)誤訊息：進(jìn)展迅速的愛是真正,、持久的愛

　　在《戀愛假期》中，裘德·洛在與卡梅隆·迪亞茲相遇兩周后便向她表白了自己的愛意,。她差點(diǎn)離開他,，最終卻為了和他在一起放棄了自己未來的計(jì)劃。

　　In real life: 42 percent of the women we surveyed believe a couple can be in love after 2 weeks, but almost none of them want a guy to say, “I love you” that soon. They prefer you to say it at around 6 months – about when they said their sex drives return to normal,。

　　現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中：參與我們調(diào)查的42% 的女性相信兩個(gè)人認(rèn)識(shí)兩周后就可以墜入愛河,，但幾乎沒有女性希望男性那么快就說出“我愛你”。她們希望是在交往大約6 個(gè)月后—大約在她們的性欲回復(fù)正常的時(shí)候——你再說這句話,。

　　puke v. 嘔吐,。

　　proposition v. 向( 女性)求歡。

　　screw up: 弄糟,，搞亂,。

　　gratuitous a. 不必要的,，無根據(jù)的，免費(fèi)的,。

　　take it personally: 介意,，放到心里去。