My View on Cohabitation of University Student

It is inevitable to touch upon the occurance of cohabitation on campus. In other countries, it is a privacy that an adult chose whom to live with, and others have no saying. While in China, it is disapproval that unmarried couples live together, and most universities have regulations against students’ cohabitation. But the question remains how rational and effective are those rules.

  大學(xué)生同居的話題是無法避免的,。在其他國家，成年人選擇和誰同居是個人隱私,，其他人無權(quán)干涉,。而在中國，未婚同居受到反對,，許多大學(xué)明文規(guī)定不允許學(xué)生同居,。但問題是這種規(guī)定合理有效么？

It is astonishingly easy to find university who will say, in private, that they are cohabiting with an opposite sex. Most say that they know somebody else who does. Because they contend that they are old enough to make such a significant decision, and that they have their right to choose their life style, they sincerely hope that the public abandon biased views against their practice. It is undeniably true that they have done nothing wrong on the part of others. Consequently it is paradoxical to label them as “wrong-doers”.

大學(xué)生私下的和異性同居出奇的多,。他們很多都說他們認識的某人也是這么做的,。因為他們認為他們已經(jīng)夠大做這種重大的決定了，他們有權(quán)利選擇自己的生活方式,，他們真誠地希望公眾對他們的這種行為摒除成見,。無可否認的是他們在其他方面完全沒有做錯。因此把他們貼上“做錯事的人”的標(biāo)簽是荒謬的,。

Some people afraid that cohabitation of university students may pose negative effect to their academic growth. Yet academic growth is by and large determined by one’s intelligence, motivation and environmental factors. If cohabitation can do little with intelligence, it is definitely facilitative to their motivation because they expect to shine at their schoolwork before their partner, which in turn contributes to their future development. Another worry is that university students are too young to wrestle with problems arising from cohabitation. Such worry is groundless when you realize that university students are all functioning as adults by legal standard and that there is no consensus when one is fully mature to grapple with cohabitation headaches. That depends on the individual.

有些人害怕大學(xué)生同居會對他們的學(xué)業(yè)有不利的影響,。然而學(xué)業(yè)很大部分是取決于一個人的智力，動力和環(huán)境因素的,。如果同居對他們的智力沒啥影響,，那么絕對的能夠影響他們的動力，因為他們都想在伴侶前炫耀自己的學(xué)業(yè),，這會對他們未來的發(fā)展有貢獻的,。另一個擔(dān)憂就是大學(xué)生大年輕很難處理同居中出現(xiàn)的問題。這種擔(dān)憂是毫無根據(jù)的,，當(dāng)你意識到大學(xué)生已經(jīng)完全成長到成年水平,，他們能夠完全成熟的去處理頭疼的同居問題。這取決于個人,。

In short, we have little to lose if we officially recognize cohabitation of university students. By refusing to do that, it will usher in more inconvenience and confrontation.

  總而言之,，我們贊同大學(xué)生同居是沒什么損失的。如果不這么做,，這只會引起更多的不便和抗議,。