Many years ago i just write a letter to some one i am not so familiar with but want to familiar with. Tonight when i back from another country, after retest the similar feeling come to my mind , i start think about the relationship with people , especially with my daughter. I found that is really interesting thing. The first is purpose. With my daughter i just enjoy and try to make her happier, but with other people i was always think about the purpose. Actually all relationship around me is working relationship. Most of time the purpose is to build trust and try to benefit from that , We build trust and try to use it to solve the difficult in front of both of us and finally to share success. And another level i think it is for some same experience and the willing try to understand each other ever more. This must be driving your action more energy and motivation , also with college. People may became real friend without any culture difference.Or becoming everyday morning hello-er in daily life even they are seems closer to each other. Actually i learn a lot from this Korea project implementation tour. They keep promise, work hard, plan at first, schedule well . This are really one not so serious young people like me need to learn from. So let us back to purpose. Do purpose really need? Or i can say i need to describe purpose more widely. Why cannot i just change all purpose to enjoy ,just like with my daughter's time. We can get pure spirit from deal with purpose as , share experience , improve together, keep promise , focus on the real target , try to be simple and easy , keep healthy for all the time , and finally build relationship . I think it is real good way to cut some unnecessary wasting of time. Another if i got chance i will write down again. Outside wind are heavy , i really enjoy it.
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