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又到金秋十月,，不少人選擇在這一黃金時段結(jié)婚，你是不是也要趕著奔赴各大婚禮宴席呢,？如果要去參加外國朋友的婚禮不會說祝福語可咋辦呢,？不用擔(dān)心！趕快加入我們學(xué)幾句吧,！
1. Congratulations on your good marriage. 恭喜你們喜結(jié)良緣,！
2. You are well matched. 你們很般配。
3. I wish you a long life together. 祝你們百年好合,。
4. May you be happy. 祝你們幸福,。
5. I wish you have a wonderful honeymoon. 祝你們蜜月愉快,。
6. May you have a lovely baby. 愿你們早生貴子。
7. I wish you two a happy and long married life. 祝你們婚姻幸福白頭偕老!
8. It is really a beautiful wedding. 真是一場漂亮的婚禮,！
9. It is a wonderful wedding ceremony. 結(jié)婚典禮辦得很精彩,！
10. You are made for each other. 你們是天生的一對。
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Jenny, I know you like Jack a lot, but what do you like about him?
詹妮,，我知道你很喜歡杰克,。但你到底覺得他怎樣？
- Well, I don't know, but there's just something about him. Don't you think so?
我不知道,，但他就是有一些特別,。你不覺得嗎？
- Really? What's that "something"?
真的嗎,？“一些”是什么,？
- Well, he's gentle(adj.文雅的，紳士的）, patient, successful, and mature（adj.成熟的）. I think He's my Mr. Right!
他很紳士,，耐心,，成功，還很成熟,。我想他就是我的白馬王子了,！
- MATURE is a good word, but don't you think he's a little old for you? He's almost twice as old as you are!
成熟是個很好的評價，但是你不覺得他對于你太大了一些嗎,？他的年紀(jì)是你的兩倍?。?br>
- Well, age shouldn't be something that gets in the way of a person's marriage（n.婚姻）. As long as we love each other, age is not an issue(n.問題),。
年齡不應(yīng)該成為結(jié)婚的阻力因素,。只要我們愛著對方，年齡就不是個問題,。
- But what will others think?
那別人會怎么看,？
- I don't care what others will think about us. I just know I love him and he loves me...and that's all that matters.
我不在乎別人怎么看我們。我知道我愛他,，他也很愛我……這才是最重要的,。
Let’s go over some phrases now. 讓我們一起來回顧一下有用的短語吧！
gets in the way of成為阻力
Age is not an issue. 年齡不是問題,。
That's all that matters. 這才是最重要的,。
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據(jù)專家披露：原諒并非幸福婚姻的法寶,。相反,，通過吵架表達憤怒的情緒是婚姻長久幸福的保證,。
James McNulty of Florida State University found that the culture of forgiveness could actually cause major problems. The key to a happy marriage: It is not always best to forgive and forget, say Florida researchers.
佛羅里達州立大學(xué)的吉姆斯? 麥克納爾蒂稱發(fā)現(xiàn)：包容甚至?xí)o婚姻帶來嚴(yán)重的問題。談到幸?；橐龅拿卦E,，諒解并非永遠(yuǎn)奏效。
'I continued to find evidence that thoughts and behaviors presumed to be associated with better wellbeing lead to worse wellbeing among some people - usually the people who need the most help achieving wellbeing.' McNulty therefore set out to examine the potential costs of positive psychology. In a set of recent studies, he found that forgiveness in marriage can have some unintended negative effects.
“很多資料證明人們普遍認(rèn)為能給我們帶來幸福的思維和行為其實適得其反,?！丙溈思{爾蒂著手研究了所謂‘積極心理’可能讓人們付出的代價。在近期的研究中,，他發(fā)現(xiàn)婚姻中的原諒會導(dǎo)致難以預(yù)料的負(fù)面后果,。
'We all experience a time in a relationship in which a partner transgresses against us in some way,' he said.
他說：“我們都有體會：婚姻中對方有時會逾越我們的底線?！?/font>
'For example, a partner may be financially irresponsible, unfaithful, or unsupportive. ‘When these events occur, we must decide whether we should be angry and hold onto that anger, or forgive.' “Forgiving leads agreeable people to be less likely to offend his partner and disagreeable people to be more likely to offend his partner,” he said.
”比如不愿意承擔(dān)經(jīng)濟責(zé)任,，對我們不忠實或是對我們的困境袖手旁觀?！?”當(dāng)這些事情發(fā)生時,，我們必須決定我們是憤怒還是壓抑憤怒，也就是原諒,?！?“對于性格隨和的伴侶而言，原諒可以減少他們未來犯錯的可能性,，對于性格不佳的人而言,，原諒反而會鼓勵他們變本加厲地冒犯伴侶?！?/font>
Having a row and being perfectly honest with each other can help marriages last longer, he say.
因此,，他認(rèn)為要想婚姻長久，爭吵和坦誠相待是不可或缺的,。
Additionally, he claims, anger can serve an important role in signaling to a transgressing partner that the offensive behavior is not acceptable.
另外,，他還強調(diào)，對于逾越底線的伴侶,，憤怒情緒的表達可以起到重要的預(yù)警作用,。
'If the partner can do something to resolve a problem that is likely to otherwise continue and negatively affect the relationship, people may experience long-term benefits by temporarily withholding forgiveness and expressing anger.'
“如果對方能對于可能繼續(xù)影響婚姻的行為作出調(diào)整，相較原諒和寬容而言,，反而會帶來更長久的和諧關(guān)系,。“
However, McNulty found there was no single answer to the problem. There is no 'magic bullet,' no single way to think or behave in a relationship.
但對于任何一種問題,，都不可能采取單一的解決途徑。也就是說,，婚姻中沒有靈丹妙藥,，沒有理想的固定模式,。
'The consequences of each decision we make in our relationships depends on the circumstances that surround that decision.'
“婚姻關(guān)系中面對問題如何抉擇，關(guān)鍵看做決定時的具體情境,?！?br> |
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