一,、人生沒(méi)有回頭路,只有大路小路,直路彎路,,山路水路,,上坡路下坡路,每一條路都不規(guī)則,,不管你選擇哪一條,,都是一條不歸路。人生的諸多煩惱,,其實(shí)源于自己,。有些人在風(fēng)雨飄搖中笑看風(fēng)景,有些人在安樂(lè)窩里哭泣說(shuō)不快樂(lè),,一切皆來(lái)自于心,。There is no turning back road in life. There are only roads and alleys, straight roads and detours, mountains and rivers, uphill roads and downhill roads. Every road is irregular, no matter which one you choose, it is a no-return road. Many troubles in life actually originate from oneself. Some people laugh at the scenery in the wind and rain, some cry and say unhappy in the safe nest, everything comes from the heart. 二、世上最牢固的感情不是“我愛(ài)你”,,而是“我習(xí)慣了有你”,。生活就是改變。有時(shí)痛苦,,有時(shí)精彩,,但大多數(shù)時(shí)候,兩者兼有,。The strongest feeling in the world is not "I love you", but "I am used to having you". Life is change. Sometimes painful, sometimes wonderful. But most of the time, they are both. 三,、不要羨慕別人比你成熟。那是因?yàn)?,一路走?lái),,他們遇見(jiàn)的壞人比你多。經(jīng)歷了生活的跌宕起伏,,看過(guò)了生命的凡來(lái)塵往,愿我們每個(gè)人都能以向日葵的精神,,面朝陽(yáng)光,,追逐著光明,不去怨,,不去恨,,默默生長(zhǎng),默默成長(zhǎng),,每一個(gè)日升月落的日子,,都給世界,給自己一個(gè)微笑,。Don't envy others who are more mature than you. That's because, along the way, they met more bad people than you. Having experienced the ups and downs of life, and seen all the comings and downs of life, I hope that each of us can, in the spirit of sunflower, face the sunshine, pursue the light, not to complain, not to hate, grow silently, grow silently, give the world a smile on every sunrise and sunset day. 四,、致自己,人生八苦,少一苦,,不為人生,,多一苦,不為佛道,,后世看人,,前世看景,沒(méi)有多少人待人如初,,也沒(méi)有多少人相見(jiàn)恨晚,,一切遇見(jiàn)是天意。To myself, life is eight hardships, less one hardship, not life, more one hardship, not Buddhism and Taoism, future generations, past generations, not many people treat others as before, not many people hate late meeting, all meet is God's will. 五,、感情的事,,不是一朝一夕,也不是一時(shí)半刻,,有多人的離去,,是因?yàn)椴槐辉谝猓卸嗌偾榈姆艞?,是因?yàn)椴槐徽湎?。誰(shuí)都想談一場(chǎng)不分手的戀愛(ài),因?yàn)榧藿o了愛(ài)情,,就相當(dāng)于談了一輩子的戀愛(ài),,想到這兒,我就覺(jué)得好甜好甜,。Emotional matters, not overnight, not a moment and a half, many people leave, because they are not cared about, how many feelings of abandonment, because they are not cherished. Everyone wants to talk about a love without breaking up, because marrying love is equivalent to talking about love for a lifetime. Think of it here, I feel sweet and sweet. 六,、 失戀也許是好的,如再也給我太多的溫馨,,那只是一片蒼涼的掩飾,,單薄的背影夾滿悲傷的悲寂,獨(dú)自一人的時(shí)候,,總是會(huì)有些任性的念想在翻飛,,就像風(fēng)浪之中飄搖的船只。Lovelorn may be good, if you give me too much warmth, it's just a desolate cover, thin back filled with sad silence, when alone, there will always be some capricious miss flying, like a boat waving in the wind and waves. 七,、有時(shí)候疏遠(yuǎn)不是討厭,,而是太喜歡又很無(wú)奈,我不想抱著期望等待落空,,只好假裝大方自己先走,。別等愛(ài)你的人都走了,你才想起來(lái)珍惜,,世界上沒(méi)有后悔藥,,一旦錯(cuò)過(guò)了,,日后就算你再主動(dòng),人家也提不起熱情,,沒(méi)有誰(shuí)會(huì)無(wú)條件對(duì)你好,,因?yàn)閻?ài)都是相互的。Sometimes alienation is not annoying, but too fond and helpless. I don't want to wait for failure with expectations, so I have to pretend to be generous and go first. Don't wait for the people who love you to leave, you will remember to cherish, there is no regret medicine in the world, once missed, even if you take the initiative in the future, people will not be able to mention enthusiasm, no one will treat you unconditionally, because love is mutual. 八,、身邊的人,,都有各自的生活,我再也回不到從前形影不離的溫暖,。這個(gè)時(shí)候,,眼淚會(huì)聚集眼眶,在轉(zhuǎn)身的一瞬間,,破裂成行,。Everyone around us has their own lives, and I can never return to the warmth that always existed before. At this time, tears will gather in the eyes, in the moment of turning around, burst into line. 九、這一生愛(ài)過(guò)多少人,,犯過(guò)多少錯(cuò),,又經(jīng)歷過(guò)多少起孚,蕓過(guò)幾多人情世味,,她永遠(yuǎn)都是一杯淡雅,,那素凈的芬芳在每個(gè)人心中久久地索繞,無(wú)法散去,。這世上,,不是只有烈酒才能碎人,不是只有熱戀才會(huì)刻骨,,一份清淡,,更能歷久彌香,一種無(wú)意,,更讓人魂?duì)繅?mèng)蔡,;一段約,更可以維系一生,。In this life, how many people have loved, how many mistakes have been made, how many people have experienced ups and downs, and how many people have been in love with the world. She will always be a cup of elegant tea, the pure fragrance in everyone's heart for a long time, can not be dispersed. In this world, not only spirits can break people, not only passionate love can carve bones, a light, more lasting fragrance, a kind of unintentional, more soul-stirring Cai; a brief, more life-long. 十,、任何時(shí)候都可以開(kāi)始做自己想做的事,請(qǐng)不要用年齡和其他東西來(lái)束縛自己,,年齡從來(lái)不是界限,除非你自己拿來(lái)為難自己,。You can start doing what you want at any time. Please don't tie yourself to age and other things. Age is never the limit unless you make it difficult for yourself. 十一,、有時(shí)候我們?cè)徱粋€(gè)人,有多少個(gè)是能真心原諒,,說(shuō)白了只是不想失去他,,藏在心中的每一根刺,,但愿能隨著時(shí)光流逝而被慢慢磨平,畢竟是我愛(ài)的人,,我能夠怪你什么,。Sometimes we forgive a person, how many of them can sincerely forgive, just don't want to lose him, hidden in the heart of each thorn, I hope that with the passage of time and slowly smooth, after all, is my lover, I can blame you for what. 十二、心灰意冷的過(guò)程是最難熬的,,各種猜想的誕生,,心中隱隱期盼,一直在修改自己的底線,,直到茶涼心冷,,失望透后不得不選擇說(shuō)再見(jiàn)。 The process of frustration is the most difficult, the birth of various conjectures, hidden expectations in the heart, has been modifying their own bottom line, until the cold tea, disappointed, had to choose to say goodbye. 十三,、生活其實(shí)很單,,過(guò)了今天就是明天。每個(gè)人都有兩個(gè)自己:一個(gè)是外在的,、社會(huì)性的,、變了形的;一個(gè)是內(nèi)在的,、本質(zhì)的真實(shí)的自己,,就是心靈。兩個(gè)自己需要交談,,如果隔絕太久,,日久天長(zhǎng),最后剩下的只是一個(gè)在地球上跑來(lái)跑去,、被社會(huì)所異化的自己,。 Life is very simple. Today is tomorrow. Everyone has two selves: one is external, social and transfigured; the other is inner, essential and real selves, that is, the soul. Two of them need to talk. If they are separated for too long, for too long, all they have left is a person who runs around the earth and is alienated by society. 十四、人生的精彩,,就是在無(wú)奈中活得更精彩,,在承受里能更承受。用一點(diǎn)一滴的努力,,成就明天的花開(kāi),。不妨先做出點(diǎn)成績(jī),然后再去強(qiáng)調(diào)你的感受,,否則,,生命中只有唧唧歪歪,怎么看都像是矯情,。The splendor of life is to live more splendidly in helplessness and bear more in endurance. With a little bit of effort, achieve tomorrow's blossom. You might as well make some achievements first, and then emphasize your feelings, otherwise, life is only crooked, how to look like a falsehood. 十五,、生活還要繼續(xù),我們還得趕路,,行囊太重,,不能帶上負(fù)能量,。下一程,陰霾散盡,,海闊天空,,我們終會(huì)遇見(jiàn)陽(yáng)光!善良要有底線,,大方要有原則,。不分青紅皂白,只知道對(duì)人好,,那會(huì)辜負(fù)自己的一片好心,。Life goes on. We have to go ahead. We have to pack too much bags to carry negative energy. Next way, the haze disappears, the sea and the sky, we will eventually meet the sunshine! Kindness needs a bottom line and generosity needs principles. Be indiscriminate, only know to be good to others, that will fail to live up to one's own good intentions. 十六、過(guò)得好的人,,沒(méi)時(shí)間關(guān)注別人的生活,,也沒(méi)精力沉浸于過(guò)去的傷害。過(guò)得好的人,,過(guò)去的所有經(jīng)歷于他而言都是有意義的,,即使是傷疤,也是為了提醒他,,遠(yuǎn)離容易傷害你的人,,不要在同一個(gè)地方跌倒兩次。 People who live well have no time to pay attention to other people's lives and no energy to immerse themselves in past injuries. All the experiences of a good person in the past are meaningful to him. Even the scar is to remind him to stay away from those who are likely to hurt you and not fall twice in the same place. 十七,、所有少年時(shí)期經(jīng)歷過(guò)的一草一木,,在任何時(shí)候都會(huì)非常親切地保留在一個(gè)人的記憶里中,并且一想起來(lái)就叫人甜蜜得鼻子發(fā)酸,。Every tree and grass that we have experienced in our youth will be kept in one's memory at any time, and it will make our nose sour when we think of it. |
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