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【圖片來源于網(wǎng)絡(luò)】 你和你的媽媽一起逛街嗎？當(dāng)你在想：咦,，這條牛仔褲還挺時(shí)尚的,。媽媽有沒有高呼這條褲子都破啦！ 小聲告訴你,，你不是一個(gè)人在戰(zhàn)斗,。Ryan想象了一下，如果自己是一位父親,，也看不得女兒穿著布料匱乏的短裙出門,。赫揚(yáng)覺得家長還是應(yīng)該尊重孩子選擇服飾的權(quán)利。 在時(shí)尚大戰(zhàn)中,，通常你和你麻麻是誰贏了呢,？ 以下是文稿： Heyang: You think you are such a fashionista, wearing ripped jeans, a low-cut t-shirt or smoky eyes maybe, but your mom simply think you look like a tramp. Yes, we are talking about your fashion versus your mom’s fashion. What are the things that we can’t agree upon? Niu Honglin: Well, for most moms I feel like they want their kids to be wrapped up with clothes, a lot of clothes or fabric on the body, and they want them to wear decently and expensive clothes; well anyway, that’s my Mom’s case. There are cases where Moms don’t like jeans with holes on it, don’t like mini skirt, and don’t like super high heel shoes. Ryan: Yeah, I mean it comes from two points here, like imagine I was a father, I would be completely un-okay with my daughter wearing a mini skirt but then you know as a guy, you know there are tons of very attractive ladies out there, skirts are great, you know there is one of the things Heyang: But just not on your daughter. Ryan: Yeah, I guess that’s the double standards happen here, right? But then you know, I am trying to think, my mother is always been very cool about my fashion choices if I had ever fashion choices, I don’t know Mom you got to tell me. But anyway, you know my grandma, that’s where the fashion gap really happens, she’s buys almost 1950 sweaters for me for Christmas that fit me 12 years ago but don’t fit me, like my body has changed grandma, but whatever you know, these are definitely just prim and proper things but during her times that’s what the guys were, you know. So she still sees that being like very debonair and handsome, whereas I am like, grandma now not for me. Heyang: Dude, whatever you wear it looks good on you and whatever you wear, Niu Honglin, it’s cute on you. That’s what I think, if I am a Mom, that’s how I will look at this. Be supportive of your kids, unlike in this example that apparently when the girl came home wearing ripped jeans that’s the jeans with holes in them and it’s often done in a meticulous way and they cost more with the holes in jeans. And Mom simply says I am going to sew that up for you if you are ok with that. And I am not ok with that, well the girl is not ok with that. So there are these kind of conflicts and also many skirts can be a problem or super high heels, anything too revealing or even the makeup when certain makeup styles don’t really fit parents’ perception or they don’t think that you look like a good person. And also with guys, when you have long hair, especially if they are greasy, parents do not approve Niu Honglin: I don’t like that either. Ryan: Well ok, I mean long hair isn’t just the clean cut look. But actually there are definitely a lot of actors that pull off for a while; just something I think different times have different fashion statements. But for things like sunglasses like if I have ever came home wearing sunglasses in the house and tried to have a serious conversation with my Mom. Yes for sure she demands that I took the sun glasses off. And I would blame her there is definitely something on here, that I think yeah, like boys with long hair, that’s a fashion statement but at the same time I think you parents are coming from a mindset they are like, Hey, be clean cut, you are going to get a job one day. Hopefully you will get a job one day, but now with that hair, get a cut, clean cut’s better; these kinds of things. Niu Honglin: And for my mom she is a very practical lady so it’s always about safety. If you wanna wear glasses, you got to get the expensive one to make sure it protects your eyes. When it’s high heels, she simply throw them away and say I am trying to make sure you don’t hurt your leg or something. Heyang: Throw it away? Niu Honglin: Throw it way. She calls it try to remove potential safety hazard. Heyang: Oh Wow, your Mom is pretty tough. And I think the way that can make this relationship between Mom and kid or Dad and kid alright when it comes to the fashion choices or life choices, just really trying to understand each other better, not just shut down that option or throw stuff away, but give each other that avenue of communication, and keep it smooth and open.
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