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Tuesday Nowadays, do you realize that one of your familiar friends becomes quite different all of sudden? Even, he is completely a stranger to you. And he couldn’t remind you of any old feelings. Seemingly, you two look like two parallel lines without any point of intersection. 今天,，有沒有忽然之間發(fā)現(xiàn)曾經(jīng)熟知的朋友變得很不一樣？甚至說對你來說他很陌生,，在他身上再也找不回曾經(jīng)熟悉的感覺,。而你們越來越像兩條平行線沒有交集。 In that case, you could just say goodbye to him for now. For most people, phasing out friends is difficult, and few people can handle it well. Accidentally, it leads both to embarrassed situation. There are several brilliant advice when to say goodbye and how to do it appropriately from the Breakup Guru. 那么,，你可以跟他暫別啦,！對于大部分人來說做好這件事情很難，很少人能夠Hold住這種事情,。一不小心,，雙方陷入尷尬境地。關(guān)于何時拜拜如何拜拜不尷尬,， “分手大師”神助力建議來襲,。 One You don’t feel like the best version of yourself around your friend. Is hanging out with your friend an interesting moment on weekends or do you feel more drained each time you talk? If it’s the latter, you may need to reconsider your friendship. And you dread meeting them or don’t want to reply their messages, these are obvious signs. 一 跟朋友在一起時你感覺自己不在最佳狀態(tài)。 周末和你的朋友約會出去是你感覺是很有趣的，或者每次你們聊天時你覺得更無趣,？如果是后者,，那么你可能需要重新審視你們的友情。甚者,，你害怕聚會相見或者不想回他們的信息,，這些都是明顯的預(yù)兆。 Two You’re not equally supportive of each other. If one or neither of you truly supports the other in their life choices, endeavors or values, it’s time to say goodbye and call it quits. If both of you aren’t willing to be the cheerleader and supporter for each other, there is no difference between you and the strangers. 二 你們之間不是相互同樣支持彼此,。 如果你們其中一個或者雙方都不真誠支持對方的人生選擇,、努力或價值觀，你們就就此別過互不相欠,。如果你們雙方都不再愿意成為彼此的拉拉隊員以及支持者,，那么你們之間和陌生人有何差別。 Three Not all friendships are meant to last till death. Just like romantic relationships, many friendships have a natural beginning and ending. Some friendships are meant to apply to various times in our life. Moreover, you can gain something valuable and figure out what kind of your true friends should be. 三 并不是所有的友情都會至死不渝堅持到底,。 就像愛情一樣,，很多友誼也有開頭和結(jié)尾。在我們的生命中,，不同的友誼適合于不同的時段,。而且，你也可以得到一些很珍貴的東西并且知道清楚你的真朋友到底應(yīng)該是哪一種,。 Four Treat your friend with respect during the conversation. At some point, he was once your friend. You share beautiful memories together. Ending the relationship on a respectful note is crucial if you’re hopeful that someday you may become friends again. 四 在談話時請尊重你的朋友,。 某種程度上，他曾經(jīng)是你的朋友,。你們在一起有美好的回憶,。如果你某天想握手言和重新做回朋友，在尊重的基礎(chǔ)上結(jié)束朋友關(guān)系是非常有必要的,。 Five Avoid collateral damage as much as you could. No one wants to do like this. It is just between you and him. Don’t make others involved into it. No one likes to choose sides. And make sure that your mutual friends don’t feel that way. 五 盡量避免城門失火殃及池魚,。 沒有人喜歡這樣。這只是你和他之間的事情,。不要把其他人拖進來,。沒有人喜歡站隊表立場。請確認(rèn)你們的共同朋友沒有被那樣對待,。 No matter what you are going to lose, please remember to remind yourself of what you have got. Even though you end your friendship at this moment, please don’t forget the past wonderful memories. Please be nice instead of drawing your sword against each other! 不管你將失去什么,，請記得告訴自己你曾經(jīng)得到過什么。即使你們的友情此刻斷絕,，但也不要忘記曾經(jīng)的美好,，請溫柔以對而不是拔刀相向！
Enjoy English, enjoy fun! 娃娃機終結(jié)者--泉涌君,！ 元氣滿滿的一天，源自巧丹思燕麥 ▼▼▼ 英語共讀11月共讀英文原版《自控力》,，精彩就等你了,。 |
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