【心靈悟語(yǔ) - 你的弱點(diǎn)可能會(huì)成就你的人生】
圖文:網(wǎng)絡(luò) 編輯: 小絲
我的兩個(gè)表姐,,是雙胞胎,都長(zhǎng)得花一樣漂亮,又聰明巧嘴,,從小就特打眼,姨媽領(lǐng)著出去,簡(jiǎn)直人見人愛。唯一美中不足的是,,二姐的左臂在出生時(shí)被護(hù)士拽傷了,後來(lái)一直抬不起來(lái),。雖然這點(diǎn)毛病外人輕易看不出來(lái),,但在姨媽和二姐心裡,都是大大的陰影,。後來(lái)兩個(gè)姐姐上了初中,,情竇初開的年紀(jì),兩個(gè)扎眼的小美女身後,,都有一群毛頭小子在追。 大姐很早就開始偷偷談戀愛,,二姐卻因?yàn)槭直鄣拿?,?nèi)心自卑,不敢談,。大姐平時(shí)跑跑顛顛出去玩,,二姐也不去,就悶在家里安靜學(xué)習(xí),。這樣到了初三,,二姐的成績(jī)就比大姐好了很多。正巧那年有文工團(tuán)去學(xué)校選舞蹈演員,,自幼就喜歡唱唱跳跳的大姐當(dāng)即被選中了,。而二姐因?yàn)樯眢w缺陷,當(dāng)然是想都不敢想,。 二姐後來(lái)說(shuō),,看著大姐開開心心地去做自己喜歡的事,花枝招展地四處演出,,那麼小就像大人一樣賺錢,,她真是打心眼裡羨慕。但是想到自己不爭(zhēng)氣的左臂,,她就特別絕望,,特別恨老天不公平,。 那時(shí)候沒人會(huì)想到,二十年後,,二姐會(huì)慶幸老天給了她一個(gè)不完美的身體,。 現(xiàn)在,大姐因?yàn)槟挲g大了,,早已不再演出,,在文工團(tuán)裡做行政工作,拿著微薄的工資,,獨(dú)自帶著9歲的女兒生活——她因?yàn)檫^(guò)早進(jìn)入社會(huì),,很小就跟團(tuán)裡的男演員結(jié)了婚,生了女兒後,,很快又離了婚,,後來(lái)再嫁,還是不如意,,再次離了,。 而在大姐戀愛結(jié)婚又離婚的這些年裡,二姐卻埋頭苦學(xué),,考入名校,,畢業(yè)後去了香港,在一家銀行從文員一直做到副總,,事業(yè)風(fēng)生水起,,人也活得光鮮亮麗。她也是單身,,但不論心態(tài)還是生活水準(zhǔn),,都跟大姐有了天壤之別。現(xiàn)在的兩姐妹站在一起,,真的就像兩姐妹了——不像雙胞胎哦,,因?yàn)榻憬惚让妹蔑@老很多。 大姐有次開玩笑說(shuō),,當(dāng)年接生那個(gè)護(hù)士真偏心啊,,怎麼沒把我的胳膊也拽斷呢。 事情就這麼弔詭,。二姐的劣勢(shì)成就了她,,讓她站在了生活的更高處;而大姐的優(yōu)勢(shì)將她引入偏路,讓她的人生由捷徑走向平庸,。 這麼看的話,,我們真不應(yīng)該太記恨自己的缺點(diǎn)。正是那些不完美,讓我們知道自己想要的幸福不是那麼容易得到,,所以不得不踏下心來(lái),,老老實(shí)實(shí)地努力,不浮躁,,不偷懶,,不投機(jī)——因?yàn)闊o(wú)機(jī)可投。 而優(yōu)點(diǎn)卻常常帶來(lái)誘惑,,偏偏大多數(shù)人,,對(duì)誘惑又沒有抵抗力和辨別力。 相反,,那些不完美的人,,面臨的誘惑就少多了。因?yàn)椴幻啦宦敾凵踔敛唤】?,你就沒那麼多機(jī)會(huì),,你必須逼迫自己做那些優(yōu)秀的人不想做的事,吃他們不願(yuàn)吃的苦,,從而激發(fā)出自身僅有的潛質(zhì),,獲取自己想要的成功。而那些內(nèi)在的,、深層的,、被逼出來(lái)的特質(zhì),往往蘊(yùn)含著巨大的能量,,能幫助你取得那些看似優(yōu)秀的人所無(wú)法取得的成功,。 所謂逆境出人才,你自身的缺點(diǎn),,給你帶來(lái)了天然的逆境,,它固然讓你活得不那麼如意,,但是它也可能成就你,。因?yàn)檎沁@些弱點(diǎn),讓你遠(yuǎn)離誘惑,,讓你破釜沉舟,,讓你咬牙堅(jiān)持走到高處,看到更迷人的風(fēng)景,。
Two of my cousin, twins, all looks as beautiful as flowers, candy, smart mouth kid's hit aunt lead out, absolutely loved by all. The only drawback is, second sister's left arm was at birth the nurses pulled hurt. Later, he has been unable to hold up. Although this is something wrong with the outsiders don't see it easily, but aunt and second sister heart, is a big shadow. The two sister later on in the early age, blush, two loud little beauty behind, there are a bunch of kid chasing. Big sister starts early secretly dating, second sister but because of the arm, the problem of the inner self-Abasement, can't talk. Big sister usually run bucket out, second sister don't go, just bored at home quiet learning. So to day three, second sister's accomplishments than sister. Lot of good. Just that year to school election troupe dancers, I like to sing and dance to sister of the chosen. And the second sister because physical defects, it certainly can't imagine. Second sister later said, look at big sister happily go do the things you like, squid and strokes zhǎn de show around, so small like grownups to make money, she's the envy in my heart. But the thought of her left arm, especially desperate, especially hate God is not fair. At that time no one would have thought, twenty years later, the second sister will be thankful God gave her a perfect body. Now, because the older sister, no longer has already performed in the troupe to do administrative work, take their meagre wages, alone with her 9-Year-old daughter -- her life because of the early entry into the community, very little grump In Actor Married, after the birth of her daughter, but soon divorced, married again later, or unhappy, leave. Again. Sister in love get married then divorce these years, the second sister but bitter to learn, concentrate in school after he graduated, he went to Hong Kong, at a bank clerk from all the way up to deputy chief, career prosperity, people also Live Glam. She is single, but whatever the mentality or the standard of living, with big sister have goats. Now the two sisters stand together, really like two sisters -- don't look like twins. Oh, because my sister sister younger than many. Big sister once joked, then nurse midwife really eccentric, ah, how come we didn't get my arm also pulled off yet. Things like this paradox. Second sister disadvantage, made her, let her stand up to a higher level of life; but the advantage of sister introduced her to the road side, make her life by shortcuts towards mediocrity. So, we really shouldn't be too revenge on their weaknesses. It is those who are not perfect, let us know what you want to happiness is not so easy to get, so I had to step down to your heart, straight, no effort, no slacking restlessness, not speculation -- since the inorganic can vote. The Advantages and often bring temptation, but the majority of the people, and there is no resistance to temptation and discernment. On the contrary, those who are not perfect people, on the face of temptation. Many more. Not because the us is not smart or even not healthy, you don't have so many opportunities, you have to force ourselves to do good to those who don't want to do, they don't like to eat eat bitter, thereby stimulating from being the only potential access to their own wants Success. While those inside, deep down, are being forced out of the traits, often contains a great amount of energy, can help you achieve those seemingly good person cannot achieve success. The So-called adversity talents, your own shortcomings, bring you in the face of adversity. The Natural, it certainly makes you live is not so bad, but it also might make you. Because it is these weaknesses, let you away from temptation, make you boats, let you go to a ton of high office, see more fascinating landscapes.
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