無論是做自己熱愛的還是喜歡的事情，總是掙不到錢,；
給別人打工,，錢夠花,，朝九晚五,，五天制,，一年工作48周,，一份適當的工作就是永恒,；
工作的主要目的就是只做自己認為是對的并把它做好,，以獲得支持和幫助；
好東西都跟我無關,，得必須靠自己去掙,，去珍惜,，要為之掙扎，為之奮斗,；
工作得努力,，是掙扎亦或是懲罰；
工作必須包括一些犧牲,，你不能什么都擁有,；
工作是身份的詮釋，沒了工作我們什么都不是,；
有太多太多的規(guī)矩法則,；
工作的主要目的是獲得金錢和尋求財政安全；
通過減少不愿做的和靠別人的幫助才能創(chuàng)造成功,；
我不夠完美,，得賺取自己的價值并珍惜它；
我錯了或我做的事情總是有錯的,，我要提高自己并彌補自身價值,；
我很糟糕，有犯罪感,，我要通過努力工作來贖罪,；
我一文不名，要不斷證明自己的價值,；
我很孤獨,，要向世界證明我的獨特和我的價值；
如果你的工作生活受了以上這些觀點的影響,，現在應該到了改變改變的時候了,。但是要想改變工作形態(tài)以外的東西得必須從改變內心的態(tài)度，信念和想法開始,。我們大部分人都是伴著“眼見為實”的觀點長大的,，或許這可以等同說如果我們要改變我們就可以相信自己能改變。事實上,，任何生活的重大轉折的關鍵所在就是采納了“我相信我能看得到”的觀點的，如果你想要對自己的工作和生活來一次重大變革的話,，以下列舉的十條最有用觀點可供你采納,。
我可以發(fā)現自己熱愛的事業(yè)并從中賺到錢；
我可以改變自己的態(tài)度和情緒,；
我工作的熱情和熱愛會讓我得到報酬或得到提升,；
我可以真誠，誠實并獲得成功,；
工作的目的是讓自己的潛力得到最好的發(fā)揮,，并且工作是輕松自然的,；
當獲得自信，愛心和情感的時候,，生活會幫助我,，自己內在的聰明才智會解決許多日常瑣事,；
工作中自我投入越來越多,；
我會發(fā)現原來自己也有這么豐富的靈感和創(chuàng)造力；
成功是很安全的,，要做最棒的自己而且讓自己很高興,；
我很棒，德才兼?zhèn)洳⒛軌颢@得成功,；
Change Your Beliefs
Nick Williams
Ten unhelpful beliefs to do with work
You can't make money doing what you love or enjoy
A "proper job" is permanent, pensionable, 9 to 5, five days a week, 48 weeks a year for most of your life, working for someone else
The major purpose of work is to get approval and acceptance - to do the right thing and fit in
Everything good is outside us and needs to be earned, deserved, struggled and worked for
Work is and should be hard, a struggle and even a punishment
Work must involve sacrifice - you can't have it all
Work defines who we are - we are nothing without a good job/career
There isn't enough -scarcity rules
Money and financial rewards/security are the major purposes of work
We create success by eliminating what we don't want, by getting rid of our problems
Five unhelpful beliefs about ourselves around work
I am not good enough - I have to earn and deserve self worth
I am wrong or there is something wrong with me - I have to improve myself to make up my self worth
I am bad or guilty - I have to work hard and sacrifice to pay off my guilt
I am nothing - I have to keep proving my self worth
I am separate - I have to make the world realise that I am special and have self worth
If beliefs like these influenced you and your working life, then perhaps it's time for change. But to be able to change your outer world of work, you may well need to start with your inner world of attitudes, beliefs and ideas. Most of us have grown up with the idea of "I'll believe that when I see it", which is tantamount to saying that when we have changed we'll believe we can change. In truth, the key to all significant life changes is to adopt the attitude of "We'll see it when we believe it" Below I have listed ten of the most helpful beliefs you can begin to adopt when you are approaching any significant career or life change:
Ten beliefs to help you create the work you were born to do
You can find what you love and earn money from it
You can change your attitude and your circumstances
Your inspiration and love can lead to paid work or a great job
You can be authentic and real, and be successful
The purpose of work is to find and give expression to the best of you, and work can be easy and natural
Life supports you when you find your heart, love and passion, and the intelligence inside you will handle many of the details
You can bring more and more of yourself to your work
You have more creativity and resources inside you than you ever imagined
It is safe to be successful, be your best self and shine your light
You are good enough, have lots of gifts, skills and talents and deserve success
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