The 7 Habits Tree

杰出青少年的7個(gè)習(xí)慣

【周末 輕松一刻】“7個(gè)習(xí)慣樹”用一棵大樹來比喻人一生中要培養(yǎng)的好習(xí)慣，與大家共勉

“7個(gè)習(xí)慣樹”用一棵大樹來比喻孩子一生中要培養(yǎng)的好習(xí)慣,。從樹根開始從下往上,，這7個(gè)習(xí)慣像一棵樹一樣逐漸長成，分別是：

1. Be proactive

2. Begin with the end in mind

3. Put first things first

4. Think win-win

5. Seek first to understand, then to be understood

6. Synergize

7. Sharpen the saw

下面,，來看看對(duì)這7個(gè)習(xí)慣的中英文注解：

第1個(gè)習(xí)慣：

Be proactive－you're in charge

積極主動(dòng),，我的人生我負(fù)責(zé)

I am a responsible person. I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes and moods. I do not blame others for my wrong actions. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.

我對(duì)自己負(fù)責(zé)，做事積極主動(dòng),。我管理自己的行為,、態(tài)度和情緒。我做了錯(cuò)事不怪別人,。不用別人說我也會(huì)去做正確的事情,，哪怕沒有人在看。

第2個(gè)習(xí)慣：

Begin with the end in mind-Have a plan

有目標(biāo),，有計(jì)劃

I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part of my classroom and contribute to my school's mission and vision. I look ways to be a good citizen.

做事前我會(huì)定計(jì)劃和目標(biāo),。我做有意義和帶來積極影響的事。我是班級(jí)里的重要一員,，為學(xué)校事務(wù)做貢獻(xiàn)。我希望成為一個(gè)好公民,。

第3個(gè)習(xí)慣：

Put first things first - Work first, then play

做事分主次,，先工作,，后娛樂

I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and organized.

我在重要的事情上花時(shí)間。不該做的事,，我勇于說不,。我制定優(yōu)先級(jí),，做日程表,，執(zhí)行我的計(jì)劃,。我對(duì)自己有紀(jì)律，做事井井有條,。

第4個(gè)習(xí)慣：

Think win-win - Everyone can win

從互贏角度考慮問題,，利己利人

I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others' Emotional Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.

我勇于爭取自己想要的，但是我同時(shí)也會(huì)考慮別人的需求。我在別人的情感銀行賬號(hào)里放下我的存款,。有矛盾的時(shí)候，我尋求能平衡彼此需求的解決方案,。

第5個(gè)習(xí)慣：

Seek first to understand, then to be understood

先去理解別人，再求被人理解

I listen to other people's ideas and feelings. I try to see things from their viewpoints. I listen to others without interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people in the eyes when talking.

我仔細(xì)聆聽別人的主意和情感。我努力從他人角度去理解問題,。聽別人說話的時(shí)候我不插嘴,、不打擾,。我很有信心說出我自己的主意,。別人說話的時(shí)候,，我直視他的眼睛,。

第6個(gè)習(xí)慣：

Synergize － Together is better

協(xié)同－合作會(huì)更好

I value other people's strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups. I seek out other people's ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone. I am humble.

我珍重別人的優(yōu)點(diǎn)，向他們學(xué)習(xí),。我和大家很好相處，即使他們和我很不一樣,。我能有效地進(jìn)行團(tuán)隊(duì)合作,，因?yàn)槲抑篮献鞅葐未颡?dú)斗能帶來更好的解決方案,。我保持謙虛的精神,。

第7個(gè)習(xí)慣：

Sharpen the saw－Balance feels best

磨刀不誤砍柴工,，尋求健康和平衡

I take care of my body eating right, exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways to help others.

我注意飲食,、鍛煉和睡眠。我花時(shí)間和家人,、朋友在一起,。我在各種地方都能以各種方式學(xué)到很多東西－學(xué)習(xí)的地方可不止于學(xué)校,。我用有意義的方式去幫助別人,。（轉(zhuǎn)載自 新東方家庭教育）