Nowadays, most Chinese families have only one child, who gets more and more attention and love from their parents. Parents always try their best to meet the needs of kids, however, they are too busy to stay with the only child. Then more and more parents tend to say "yes" to most of their children's demand as a method to make up for the lack of care. However, it's not a blessing to always say "yes" to children.

如今,，大部分中國(guó)家庭只有一個(gè)孩子,，所以孩子受到父母更多的關(guān)心和愛(ài)護(hù),。父母會(huì)想方設(shè)法滿足孩子的需要,，因?yàn)榇蠖鄷r(shí)間他們都忙于工作，很少有時(shí)間陪孩子,。所以父母會(huì)對(duì)孩子的大部分要求都點(diǎn)頭同意,，來(lái)彌補(bǔ)缺失的關(guān)心。然而事事都依著孩子,，并不是對(duì)其真正的關(guān)懷,。

Indulgence from parents is very likely to throw bad influence on their children. For one thing, the only child of a family has difficulty distinguishing right and wrong. They used to get "yes" from others. Therefore, once they are refused, they will feel angry because in their mind, nobody can say "no" to them. Now, there are many bad events that youngsters hurt or kill others just because they are refused.For another thing, children will form the habit of getting something for nothing. They take everything they get for granted with no gratitude. They have formed the view that their parents have the duty to buy everything for them.Finally, most of the only children are selfish. Being the only child in the family, they needn't share anything with other, so usually they don't realize the importance of share.

父母的溺愛(ài)很有可能對(duì)孩子造成不良影響。一方面,，獨(dú)生小孩子缺乏對(duì)錯(cuò)的判斷力,。他們習(xí)慣從父母那得到順從。所以一旦他們?cè)獾骄芙^會(huì)很生氣,，因?yàn)樵谒麄冇∠笾?，沒(méi)人對(duì)他們說(shuō)不。如今有很多年輕人傷害或殺人的惡性事件發(fā)生,，就是因?yàn)樗麄冊(cè)獾骄芙^,。另一方面，孩子會(huì)養(yǎng)成不勞而獲的習(xí)慣,。他們視自己所得為理所當(dāng)然,，沒(méi)有一絲感激。他們形成父母有義務(wù)為他們買任何東西的觀念,。另外,，獨(dú)生子一般很自私，家里的獨(dú)子沒(méi)必要與別人分享什么,，所以他們沒(méi)意識(shí)到分享的重要性,。

In short, parent are supposed to take some effective measures to prevent the negative influences of overindulgence on their children, and parents should bear in mind that it's no good to the children's growth if they always say "yes" to them.

總之，父母應(yīng)該采取有效措施,，抑制過(guò)度溺愛(ài)對(duì)孩子的負(fù)面影響,，父母也應(yīng)該意識(shí)到一味順從孩子，對(duì)他們的成長(zhǎng)沒(méi)有好處,。