緣份, 是找到包容你的人 (EQ)
 
有一個(gè)男人,
為了參加第二天的小學(xué)同學(xué)會(huì),，
特地上街, 買一條新長(zhǎng)褲,。

他回家穿上后,，卻發(fā)覺(jué)長(zhǎng)度多了十公分。
于是請(qǐng)求媽媽替他改,。

媽媽說(shuō),，身體不舒服,，想早一點(diǎn)休息,
今晚不想改,。
   
于是, 改請(qǐng)求太太替他改。
太太說(shuō),還有許多家事要做,，今晚沒(méi)有時(shí)間改,。 

于是, 改請(qǐng)求女兒替他改,。
女兒說(shuō)，今晚跟男朋友約好去跳舞,，沒(méi)有時(shí)間改,。

他想想，既然如此,，明天穿舊的長(zhǎng)褲去同學(xué)會(huì)也可以,！
當(dāng)天晚上，他媽媽心想：
「兒子平時(shí)對(duì)我很孝順,，他開(kāi)口要求總不好拒絕他,。」
于是,，起來(lái)替兒子改長(zhǎng)褲,，剪短了十公分。  

他太太稍晚做完家事, 心想：
「老公平時(shí)很有耐心,，今天他是不會(huì)縫針線才開(kāi)口要求,，總不好拒絕他.」
于是替先生改長(zhǎng)褲，剪短了十公分,。

他女兒晚上回來(lái)： 
「爸爸不阻止我去跳舞,，實(shí)在是開(kāi)明的老爸，今天實(shí)在應(yīng)該替他修改長(zhǎng)褲,?！?/SPAN>
于是替爸爸改長(zhǎng)褲，剪短了十公分,。

第二天早上,，三個(gè)女人分別告訴男主人此事。
他一試長(zhǎng)褲,，已經(jīng)變成吊腳褲了,。
他的反應(yīng)「是...............」  
哈哈一笑，說(shuō)：「我一定要穿去給同學(xué)看,，告訴他們,，
我的媽媽、太太,、和女兒對(duì)我多好,。」

結(jié)果,，老同學(xué)們一致稱贊他家庭經(jīng)營(yíng)成功,。
他的媽媽、太太,、和女兒也都很高興,。

如果您是故事中的男人或女人,，當(dāng)下您會(huì)做何反應(yīng)？

「哈哈一笑」抑或「破口大罵」,？

人,，面對(duì)外人時(shí)，總是可以表現(xiàn)得雍容大肚,、心平氣和,，
但面對(duì)自己最親近的家人，卻往往一點(diǎn)小事,
就足以皺起眉頭,，甚至出言相傷,。
 
如果形容人類是一種
「出門(mén)高E.Q，回家低E.Q」的動(dòng)物,，我想一點(diǎn)兒也不夸張,，

多拿出一點(diǎn)耐心與幽默感給家人吧！
否則您自己也不會(huì)快樂(lè),，不是嗎,？ 
請(qǐng)傳閱，或許今天正有人需要它,！
也許,
我只是你生命中的過(guò)客...
并未留下任何痕跡..
但我希望的是...
當(dāng)你回想起過(guò)去的時(shí)候..
在你回憶中的那個(gè)我,
是無(wú)可取代的..
緣份,
是找到包容你的人.   

I like this story EQ (English Translation):     
      
A man bought a new pair of trousers for his primary school mates reunion dinner. When he tried out at home, he found that the trousers were too long by 10cm.

He asked his mother to help him shorten the pants. His mother said she could not do it as she was not feeling well and would like to rest early.
So the man approached his wife to shorten his pants. His wife said she was very tired and had a lot of work to do that night, so she could not help him to shorten the pants that night.
Then the man asked his daughter. His daughter apologized for not able to do it that night because she had agreed to go dancing with her boyfriend
      
"Ah well!" The man thought and decided he could wear his old trousers to the reunion.
      
Later that night, his mother thought to herself, "My son has been very nice to me.     I'll just help him to shorten his pants before going to rest." So she shortened the pants by 10cm.  

Then his wife finished her work and thought," My husband knows I am always very busy and seldom asked me to help him. I would oblige him today." So she shortened the man's pants by another 10cm. 

His daughter came home from dancing, and thought, "Papa loves me very much and when I declined to shorten his pants, he was not angry at all! I would help him to shorten his pants." So she shortened her daddy's pants yet another 10cm.

On the next day, the three ladies told the man that his pants were shortened. He tried them on and found that his pants had become shorter by 30cm!

His reaction:
He laughed heartily, and said, "I must wear this pair of pants to show my schoolmates that my mum, my wife and my daughter are such loving people."

At the dinner, his old classmates were very envious of his loving family. His mother, wife and daughter were very happy to learn about his classmates' reaction.

What would you do if it happened to you?
Very often, many would have lost their temper.
How many of us has the "EQ" of this man? Many of us has "High EQ" when dealing with
people outside the family, "Low EQ" when dealing with our own family member!
We should learn from this man!