雙語(yǔ)出處：愛思英語(yǔ)網(wǎng)   

中文翻譯：周玉亮

英文來(lái)源：essentiallifeskills.net


To be true to yourself means to act in accordance with who you are and what you believe.

做真實(shí)的自己/真誠(chéng)面對(duì)自己意味著按自己的本性和信仰行事,。

If you know and love yourself you will find it effortless to be true to yourself.

如果你了解自己、愛自己，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)真誠(chéng)面對(duì)自己真的很容易,。

Just as you cannot love anyone else until you love yourself, you cannot be true to anyone else until you are true to yourself.

如果你不能首愛自先己,，你就不可能愛別人,；同樣地,，如果你不能真誠(chéng)面對(duì)自己，你也不能真誠(chéng)面對(duì)他人,。

Be who you are.

做自己,。

Do not take action or pretend to be someone else for the sake of gaining acceptance.

不要為了贏得他人的認(rèn)可而做某件事或者扮演某種色。

Many young people believe that when they do things to please their peers, such as drink when they shouldn't, or behave and party in inappropriate ways, they will be popular and liked.

很多年輕人認(rèn)為,，要想受到歡迎并贏得好感,，他們得做些事情來(lái)討好同伴，比如：在本來(lái)不應(yīng)該喝酒的場(chǎng)合喝酒,，或者行為不端,，或者參加一些不當(dāng)?shù)木蹠?huì)。

They go against the advice of their parents or their own common sense only to find themselves in trouble and not accomplishing what they set out to do.

他們置父母的忠告和自己的常識(shí)于不顧,，結(jié)果是自找麻煩,，事與愿違。

When you do things that are not genuine or a reflection of the real you, you will not be happy with yourself and will end up confused. You'll be confused because you won't know whom to please, or how.

如果你的所作所為并非體現(xiàn)真實(shí)的自己,，你也不會(huì)真正開心而只會(huì)不知所措,；因?yàn)槟悴恢谰烤箲?yīng)該取悅誰(shuí)，怎么取悅他/她,。

Self-respect comes from being true to who you really are and from acting in accordance with your fundamental nature.

自尊源自真誠(chéng)面對(duì)自己,，自尊源自按自己的本性行事,。

When you respect yourself, others will respect you. They will sense that you are strong and capable of standing up for yourself and your beliefs.

只有當(dāng)你尊敬自己的時(shí)候,，別人才會(huì)尊敬你,；他們會(huì)認(rèn)為你足夠強(qiáng)大、足夠有能力直面自己和自己的信仰,。

When you are true to yourself, you allow your individuality and uniqueness to shine through. You respect the opinions of others but do not conform to stereotypes or their expectations of you.

只有當(dāng)你真誠(chéng)面對(duì)自己的時(shí)候,，你與眾不同的個(gè)性才會(huì)展現(xiàn)出來(lái)。尊重別人的觀點(diǎn),，但不迎合（屈從）他們的期待,。

To be true to yourself takes courage. It requires you to be introspective, sincere, open-minded and fair.

做真實(shí)的自己需要勇氣、內(nèi)省,、真誠(chéng),、公正和開放的心態(tài)。

Being true to yourself does not mean that you are inconsiderate or disrespectful of others.

做真實(shí)的自己并不意味這你可以不尊重別人或不考慮別人的感受,。

It means that you will not let others define you or make decisions for you that you should make for yourself.

做真的的自己意味著不按別人的方式定義你自己的生命,，不讓別人為你做本該由你自己做的決定。